Perspective | Miss Manners: Uninvited guest unfrosts the cake
She sat down at the dining table and I poured her a glass of wine. She reached over to her and grabbed a piece of candy that was on top of the cake—which I was okay with, because her fingers were only touching what she was eating. Then she took some icing off the cake with her finger. I think she saw my eyebrow raise when she went to get a spoon.