Unsuspecting boyfriend discovers his girlfriend had been cheating on him for six years after she accidentally sent him a message intended for her secret lover
- A distraught man has discovered that his six-year-old girlfriend has cheated on him
- The boyfriend said he thought the couple had a ‘happy’ relationship
- But he got the ‘wrong’ message that ended their six years together
A distraught man has discovered that his six-year-old girlfriend was cheating on him after accidentally sending him a message to send to her secret lover.
The unsuspecting boyfriend said he thought the couple were in a “happy” relationship until… he received the ‘wrong’ message that ended their six years together.
“Everything seemed like an ordinary day at work, I was chatting with her about some stuff and out of the blue she sends me screenshots of messages. Luckily I saw them before she deleted them,” he wrote in a Reddit thread.
“She mistakenly sent me messages she had with a man asking for a union.”
A distraught man has discovered that his girlfriend of six years was cheating on him after she accidentally sent him a message to send to her secret lover (stock image)
The man was clearly shocked by the reports and said he was starting to have a panic attack.
“I held back my anger and tears. I asked her ‘what the f*** was that?’ and asked why she asked for a commitment – did she get pregnant or something? she says ‘no,’ he said.
Then she had a Freudian slip and said, ‘I broke up on August 31’.
“I just exploded there, so many negative thoughts were running through my head. I was shaking and feeling really numb.’
Without questioning his relationship, the man said he dumped his girlfriend.
“It’s been a day now and I haven’t gotten out of bed. I don’t know what to do. I’ve cut ties with her, but she’s trying to call and message me, but I’ve blocked her. Part of me wants to confront her. Part of me wants revenge,’ he said.
“I have no idea what I want to do from now on. I won’t lie, I just numbed all day and remembered the signs I should have seen if I wasn’t so blind with love.’
Many urged the man to “move on” because he is better off without starting a “new life” for her after she violated his trust.
‘Don’t confront. She showed you her true nature and now comes the hardest part. That’s to keep her blocked and not try to contact her,” one person wrote.
Another said: ‘Don’t confront her – your shutdown happened when you got those screenshots. Take the time to mourn your dead relationship… Please don’t go back and give her a chance to explain, because it will only be a barrage of excuses.”
While one added: ‘This is not the time to be alone. Block her on everything. Don’t get sucked back in. You dodged a bullet. It’s much easier to divorce a girlfriend than a wife.’